How do I make a guy…
like me, take me seriously, want to be in a relationship with me, stop dating other women, etc.? I get this question in many different forms, but they all had to do with getting a man to comply with you.
Like I always say, you can’t change a man. You will never change a man at his core. The only person who can change him is himself. He has to want to change.
However, if you want to influence a man in his decisions, there are ways to go about it.
One of the ways is understanding how men communicate. The other way is understanding how reward and punishment works. If you understand what a guy is saying to you or what he means when he says something, it makes it much easier to influence him. If you also know how to punish his behavior when he does something you can’t stand and reward him when he does something you love, he’ll want to do the things you love and avoid the things you dislike.
Most women are at either extreme. They play hard to get worse than Chinese algebra, frustrate men, nag at them all the time, and cause drama. Some women spoil men, and let themselves be disrespected or walked all over by men. Some women think they know how to “control men”, but in reality she makes it very obvious that she is trying to manipulate him and play games, losing the respect of the guy, and making him resent her.
I can teach you the healthy balance you need to get a man to do the things you want him to do. So, let’s schedule a phone consultation. Send me an email at jester@miamidatingcoach.com.
Dan Silverman,
MDC Executive Dating Coach