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Welcome everybody! Everyone who first starts out learning the materials goes through the keyboard jockey phase. This is when you sit in front of the computer filling your mind with as much information as possible on pickup...without going out and applying.

After a certain time through this phase, you finally go out in the field and get your trigger time in the shit. This is called the warrior phase. It is the time where you fuck up the most in your game, but it's also where you learn the most. It's when you go out ready to battle yourself, battle your ego, your limiting beliefs, where you force yourself to sarge even with a bad attitude. You conquer your fears and you fight like a warrior. It's not very fun until you find a way to make it fun. The following is a field report in the journey of a fellow Jedi going through the warrior phase.

SUCCESS STORY

As I was driving up 95 I decided to try something Kingpin had told me about. Regardless of how you feel put a smile on your face for 5 minutes. As I was doing it, it felt so unnatural. Kind of pissing me off even. The results were powerful as by the time I reached my exit I was in a great mood. I'm a huge skeptic and this technique worked in spit of my disbelief.

Approach #1. {2 set at the bar. Both black girls}.

I was interested in the one with the silver glitter eye shadow. I sat to her right ordered a drink and worked on moving slowly and occasionally throwing a glance in her direction now and then. I pulled out a dollar and asked her if she had another cigarette. She said she just had one, and her body was demonstrating IOD. I didn't push the issue and went back to people watching. Another girl at the bar was yelling at the bartender for having to wait for her drink and I saw my target shaking her head in disapproval. I smiled at her shook my head as well and said, "DRAMA".

She told me her frinds boyfriend was going to be pissed because he didn't know they had gone out. I started talking to the friend about why her boyfriend was such a control freak and they opened up to me but my target was still sending no IOI's.

Before I departed I wrote the exchange down in my small note book. My ex target asked me what I was writing about and I told her it was a blog about my night. In retrospect I wish I would have told her it was about her and if she pressed read back my observations about her. It would at the very least given me an education on how accurately I was reading the situation.

I said good bye to both of them and made my exit.

Approach #2 (Also a 2 set)

I walked by the DJ booth and saw 2 girls facing out. Very open body language. I stood to the side and did the "Iceman stance". I caught my targets glance and we exchanged smiles. I waited for about a minute not wanting her to think I was going to just jump on any girl in the club that smiled at me. Didn't want to be a "try hard".

I opened with, "Is this place always this crowded"? She told me it was only the second time she had been there yada yada.

Since I didn't have any routines memorized and I didn't want our conversation to become like 20 questions I implemented something I made up on the spot.

She seemed very responsive and put her hip up against mine and didn't move or look nervous when I used light kino. Funny thing is she never faced me with her body but looked at me over her right shoulder only slightly turning into me.

After I left the girl standing by the DJ booth, I noticed the girl who had grabbed my shirt earlier was only with her friends now and the guy was gone. Her name was Lola. I went over to her and said, "Were you abandoned"? She said he was drunk. She had her legs far enough apart for me to step in between. I stepped in, looked at her, shook my head, and said, "Unacceptable".

Then, without a word, I took a step back and stuck my hands out as if I expected her to take them. She did and I pulled her off the stool to dance by the table she was at with her friends.

I was kino escalating with her and she was cooperative right up till I did this move I do where I go in for the kiss. She stopped me and told me, "I don't do that". She was grinding her ass on me for 12 minutes but kissing was "too much oo fast"(<-My thoughts). What did this girl read the rules or something. Suffice to say I was totally uninterested with her at this point.

The reason I stayed is because 2 more of her friends who had been in the V.I.P came down. They were HB's and they were having drama. I thought it was a good time to practice my ball busting.

One of the girls was complaining about some guy she had met in the club talking to one of her friends after he had taken her phone number. She was an ex-stripper and had the whole fake extra long lashes and the whole look. I said, "How old are you".(Her) "Twenty eight".(Me) "Your twenty eight and you haven’t figured out men yet"? She started qualifying herself to me and trying to downplay the severity of the situation.

I was ready to go home and call it a night but Lola’s friend came up to me and said. "Will you please ask her for her phone number"? I didn't have my phone with me so I told her I would give her my phone number. She called me within 15 minutes after I left the club.

What I learned:

Pick up is more what you don't do than what you do. There are pit falls in body language. Wanting the conversation to go well too much, voice tone, etc. Even if you don't have routines or great game you can still pull numbers and gain interest if you are congruent with I can take you or leave you but I'm friendly and open.

I'm still going to learn techniques and get better but it's nice to know I'll have some fun girls to hang out with along the way while I'm further expanding my game.

-Stripper-

MY COMMENTS

Good attitude. Always look at the bright side of any situation. Good idea bringing a notepad to write down the things you learn. Read Mystery's ebook for the M3 structure and read some of Tyler Durden's posts on mASF to get kick ass routines. There are certain beliefs you must internalize to make the warrior phase more pleasant. Remember these points:

1. You have to fuck up in order to learn.

2. The more you fuck up, the more you learn.

3. There are no fuck ups, only learning experiences.

4. Once you fuck up enough, you will get laid.

5. Buy my $5,000 ebook and you won't have to do any of this.

Great field report,
Jestizzle

MDC Executive Coach