Quite a few men are willing to have sex with just about anything physically attractive, but when it comes to a quality relationship, men do screen for more than just looks. This is especially true when it comes to the kind of quality men that all the women desire.
To trigger a man’s love switch, you need a high score on what I call the L.I.P. scale. Basically L. I. P. stands for looks, intelligence, and personality.
If you have been relying on just your looks to attract men, you’re only high on the L in the L.I.P. scale. Many women fall under this category. They only improve their physical beauty while ignoring their self esteem, personal creativity, conversational skills, attitude, and their dreams. The stereotype for the type of woman who has a high L, but a low I and P, is the “hot chick” that men see walking down the street with her butt hanging out of her miniskirt, talking loud with a chongafied accent, and only talking to guys drinking expensive cocktails.
Though this example is highly exaggerated, it illustrates a point. When men see this kind of woman, their hearts aren’t moved. Something else might move, but that’s about it. He can have sex with a woman like this, but he cannot respect a woman with only one thing going for her and respect is a prerequisite for any kind of important relationship.
If you are reading this right now, you are probably not as low on the I and P as our girlfriend above since you have the intelligence to improve yourself and the personality to not take yourself too seriously. However, all three categories can be improved upon with a little guidance. Even intelligence can be improved by becoming more educated or getting involved in creative activities. Looks and personality are definitely areas that we at Miami Dating Coach would be more than happy to help you improve upon so that you can become a more complete woman.