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While sarging (meeting women) with my friend Stripper, I made a discovery and coined a new technique. This is a well known tactic, but it has never been specifically coined. I call it Shotgun DHVing.

A DHV is a demonstration of high value. Shotgun DHVing is a term I like to use when you DHV to an entire room rather than a specific girl or set. This can be anything that calls attention from almost everyone in your venue to yourself and raises your social value to everyone in the room. This can be anywhere from kick ass salsa dancing, hip hop dancing, standup comedy, magic, or having the host or the highest status person of the party accomplishment intro you to everyone in the party at the same time.

Every pickup guru has his specialty shotgun DHV material in some form. Mystery uses magic, Style buys VIP status and walks through lines with Celebrities, Tyler goes to clubs with two gorgeous women on his arms, and Jlaix sings karaoke.

Shotgun DHVing is like taking a shotgun and shooting at multiple targets. It raises your status to the entire room. It's like exercising on a cycling machine and reducing the friction. It makes approaching and attracting people in the room much easier and smoother in the entire environment.

CAUTION:

Do not look like you are seeking attention or validation from everyone. Don't look around the room to see people's reactions. It is like taking the shotgun and pointing it at your foot. It will do exactly the opposite.

Some pellets will hit targets harder than others. Calibrate how a girl may perceive you. You could blow yourself out approaching a girl and having TOO much value. A good example of this happened to me at a party one weekend. I had my eye on a girl and worked her group of friends while teasing and sniper negging (throwing teasing comments) her. Then I went up on the dance floor and danced very good salsa with her friend. My wingman, Kingpin, noted that the girl I was interested in was staring at me the whole time. After the dancing, I approached the girl in front of her friends, once again teasing her. Then I tried to extract her to the dance floor and she freaked out. She blushed and tried to get back to the safety of her group, even though her friends continued to encourage her to dance with me. Kingpin felt it was because I put her on the spot because HER perceived value of me was way too high. Normally, I advise to almost never open a group of strangers seeking rapport (asking questions and trying to get to know them until) until they start seeking rapport with you. In situations like this where the girl thinks you're a superstar, it is okay to open seeking rapport.

Jester,

MDC Executive Coach

"Work the room. Tell the two women to come look for your friends with you and hold them in each arm while you walk around the entire club eying every man and woman. Wusup, wusup, sup sup sup sup sup... Oh well, can't find them, let's get back to your friends."

-Mystery-

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