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It is important to note that the rules of ATTRACTION apply during COMFORT BUILDING. Attraction is NEVER over... it's just that in the later stages, during comfort building, attraction isn't the FOCUS.

Kino escalation happens when you make a move... when you hold a girl's hand, touch her face, kiss her etc.

REMEMBER: DO NOT KINO ESCALATE LIKE YOU ARE TRYING TO GET HER TO SEX AS FAST AS POSSIBLE.

Relax guys! This telegraphs WAY too much interest and puts her in the position of being the prize.

Remember to add the concept of push/pull theory. With each step... always ALWAYS have some kind of PUSH when you pull her in with this escalation. If you are always pulling and never pushing her away, she will become accustomed to resisting your advances and expecting them to come... thereby making you chase her and making yourself predictable. She will not find this attractive trust me. This is the point where whatever attraction you had with her before starts to die and losses interest.

The best time to kino escalate is right after you give her an IOD (Indicator of Disinterest) or when you "push her" pushing her creates this vacuum that makes her want to win your approval back. The kino is her reward (pull) for chasing you. But you never want to give her full validation, neither shutting her out completely. That's what sexual tension is.

A good example of proper kino escalation:

Kingpin: Are you a good kisser? (Bait)

HB: Uh.. yeah, of course, duh! (Hook)

Kingpin: If you were in a kissing class what grade would the teacher give you. (Bait)

HB: A+! (Hook)

Kingpin: No way, you probably have no idea how to kiss. (IOD)

HB: Yeah I do!! (Hook)

Kingpin: Show me then. (Starts making out dirty style then pushes her off.) I guess you're okay...*smile*

To properly execute Kino Escalation, you must first establish some kind of touch. Maybe poke her, touch her shoulder. Something small. Work your way to more intense kino like hand holding, cuddling, and sitting in your lap. CALIBRATE. Don't be a wuss either.

Don't kino unnaturally. Reward her with kino. If you aren't setting it up and you are just going for kino, it can still work, but MAKE SURE YOU throw her hand away. YOU always be the one to start AND stop. If you feel she is tensing up when you kino her, give her an IOD and throw her hand away. This all comes with FIELD EXPERIENCE. See you guys later.

Jester,

MDC Executive Coach

"I saw her leaning out of her window and noticed how her clothing barely touched her skin, how it floated about her body on a cushion of air, brushing her body like angel's wings. It was then when I learned how a woman must be touched."

-Don Juan DeMarco-

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