“He is so aggressive! I try to let him know that it turns me off and he keeps doing it. It makes me feel like he doesn’t respect me.”
“I just want him to make decisions already. I hate making decisions all the time. I tell him to think of something to do and he always says, ‘Whatever you want to do, honey’.”
You probably wonder why he doesn’t get it what you are trying to tell him.
Do you know why he doesn’t understand you? This is because you aren’t speaking guy language. Men and women communicate very differently. A few years ago when I began to study the male/female dynamic in-depth, I began to understand the patterns in the way we communicate with the opposite sex.
Women give off many subtle signals through body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, and many other slight signals. Women are masters at using intuition and can detect the slightest change of mood.
Men however, aren’t wired that way from a biological standpoint. Men speak directly to each other. What they say is what they mean. If you want a guy to do something, just tell him straight up. Don’t expect him to read your body language or pick up subtle cues, since he probably won’t be able to.
Also, it’s useless to try and analyze “what he means” when he tells you something. If you are having trouble speaking guy language and would like first class training in communicating with men, sign up for a consultation.