Inner Game Tip 1: Create an exercise regimen and eat healthy. One of the greatest things you can do for your inner game is to exercise regularly and eat healthy. Not only will it improve your overall physical attractiveness, it will increase your testosterone levels, energy, health, and psychological well-being.

Inner Game tip 2: Get involved in group activities and social circles. Developing a life with many social groups  helps you feel included and accepted in society. Obviously having a life with little to no friends can be a real drag on your inner game. When you have groups of people to go out with or do fun activities with, it is much easier to meet women and interact with others with similar interests.

Inner Game tip 3: Approach women and face rejection. Rejection happens to all of us. No matter who you are, you will experience it eventually. Facing your fears head on develops confidence and improves your inner game. If you think the woman is going to reject you before you approach her, have the mentality that every rejection brings you one woman closer to finding a woman who likes you back. This philosophy is also true!

Inner Game Tip 4: Set small goals and accomplish them. Every time you set a goal and accomplish it, you feel more in control of your life. You also feel a sense of achievement, building your inner game. You can begin by setting a goal to talk to 3 new women in one week. Even if all three women reject you, you will feel good that you tried and accomplished the goal you set. If the challenge was too easy, make it more difficult. Perhaps approaching 12 women in one week is a bit difficult, but doable in your mind.

Inner Game Tip 5: Develop a sense of intrinsic confidence. Extrinsic confidence is receiving confidence from outside yourself. Examples of these are validation from women’s approval, owning a nice car, having money, good looks,  or dressing well. These are nice to have, but at any point in time, these extrinsic sources of validation could disappear, leaving you feeling depressed. Do you remember the last time a woman said something nice, making you feel great, and then saying something negative to you, removing all confidence she had built? This shouldn’t affect you too much when you have intrinsic confidence. Intrinsic confidence comes from character traits and values. The things inside of you with which you have full control. Being a faithful, honest person or being intelligent is not something that will ever go away. Accomplishments that you have achieved in the past or the fact that you are working towards improving yourself also don’t go away and are things that should bring you confidence.

All in all, take care of yourself. Treat yourself like you have some self-value and so will women. Confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac and genuine confidence is a lot better than pretending you do.

Recognizing negative thoughts is the key in finding what is causing your inner game to sink. Anytime you feel a negative emotion, be assured that a negative belief is causing it. Before you can change your negative beliefs into positive ones, you first have to find out what are your negative beliefs. You do this by recognizing when you feel a negative emotion and writing those thoughts down. At a later point, when you are feeling comfortable and you are not feeling the effects of strong emotions, you can sit down and go through each and every single negative thought. Ask yourself why you felt this way. Your mind will come up with lots of excuses and reasons to justify your approach anxiety and negative inner game. All of these justifications will be the reasons why your inner game is failing you.

The next step is to tackle these negative beliefs one by one. Take the time to grind out why those negative beliefs are false and only serve to hinder your inner game. If you really sit down and think about all the things that cause you approach anxiety, it’s not hard to discover that most of your negative beliefs are blown way out of proportion and are simply not true, at least not true at all times. You will feel so much better once you realize these inner game flaws are mostly wrong and may bring a fresh new prospective on your dating life.

Get All Your Burning Dating Questions Answered for FREE

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Dear Wonderful Clients,

Wouldn’t it be great to meet people without having to rely on luck, coworkers, and friends?

Before I dove headfirst into learning dating strategies and techniques to become a dating coach, the only way I met women was through friends and sheer luck. One of the ways I met women was through theatre. After shows, women would come approach me and want to get to know me. Unfortunately in real life, women rarely approach men. In order for us men to meet women, we have to do the approaching. While I was in college earning a Bachelor’s in Theatre, I was teaching acting classes for students of my own. My favorite aspect of acting classes was that my students would gain confidence in public speaking. The combination of a skilled acting coach and interactive real time practice was not only fun, but much more educational than those other classes where people sit and listen to a lecture. This is the way I enjoy teaching my dating classes!

But the best part is that I am offering this seminar FREE OF CHARGE. I am now offering monthly seminars free of charge to help you reach your goals in finding that special someone. All I ask in return is that you bring friends and help spread the word!

Get all of your dating questions answered, meet and greet people, and enjoy inexpensive drinks and food at my

Free Dating Workshop

Do you feel clueless as to how to approach or what to say to someone you like?

Are you frustrated with a lack of dates in your life?

Are you tired of having to settle for someone that you aren’t crazy about?

Are you fed up with feeling alone, especially on weekend nights?

After taking my workshop you will:

Know exactly what to say when you approach.

Feel more confident talking to people.

Learn different dating strategies for different situations.

Discover your personal style.

Program Itinerary:

Seminar:

In this seminar you will have the opportunity to ask me any question you would like. We will practice exercises and work in groups to improve your ability to approach. The seminar will be 3 hours long with a break in between for drinks. Take this opportunity to meet like-minded people who want to improve their success at dating and exchange numbers to meet up later.

Check out what people have said after receiving approach coaching from me:

If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me an email at dan@miamidatingcoach.com

I hope to see you all there!

Your Dating Coach,

Dan Silverman

The Miami Dating Coach

Personal Letter from Tony Ventura:

Tyler Durden: Now I’m 25, make my yearly call again. I say Dad, “Now what?” He says, “I don’t know, get married.”

Narrator: I can’t get married, I’m a 30 year old boy.

Tyler Durden: We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.

I guess I start my bio off with a quote from one of my favorite movies, Fight Club. This quote, often overlooked by even the biggest fans of the cult classic, is one of the greatest silent truths of our generation. We are a generation of men raised by women. My parents were divorced before my 2nd birthday. My dad was around when I was little, but he disappeared when I was 8 years old. Every time I look at some of my geekier friends, the ones who’ve had similar troubles with women like I once had, I see the same pattern. Either the dad was a deadbeat on the run owing child support, or dead, or he just didn’t care, or he was just so completely pussy whipped by his wife that he didn’t have the balls to try and show his son how to be a man.

My mother was no help. No mother ever can be, really. She tried her best to be both mom and dad. But when I would go to her for advice she’d tell me to make the girls nice gifts and bring them things. On one occasion my mom made me an incredibly gorgeous and expensive Valentine’s Day gift basket for a girl. None of this, of course, ever worked. She didn’t understand that she was telling me what she wanted my stepfather to do for her fifteen years into a relationship, not what girls wanted me to do for them before they even knew I was alive. My grandmother’s strict religious upbringing made things even worse. Even looking at girls was a sin! And I was going to hell if I did it!

And so, on it went through my teens. On the very rare occasion I grew just enough balls to talk to a girl I still didn’t have enough balls to attract them. I was always shot down, most often brutally and viciously. I absolutely knew girls could never like me, and I learned this belief at a very young age. The worst if it came from my homecoming date. She offered to be my date about a month before homecoming in exchange for my taking her to this really expensive concert that I didn’t even care about. I wasn’t crazy about her, but she was pretty cute and charming. So I obliged. So about a week before homecoming I pull her aside one day after school to start making plans for the big day. She tells me she doesn’t ever remember making that deal and she already has another date! Worse still, I had another equally cute girl ask me to homecoming and I turned her down because I thought I already had a date. Regardless to say, I didn’t go at all. It really wasn’t until I was about 19 or so and school was just months from being over that I had the realization that I needed to put myself out there more, put more effort into it, and stop running and hiding every single time I had one rejection. I was way too anti-social to find other ways of meeting girls then, and my social life as I knew it was about to end. Then things at home took a turn for the worse.

My stepfather kicked us out of the house. He had finally grown out of control. My mom, my kid brother, and myself, found ourselves living in a single cramped room at my grandmothers. And I, having been raised very innocently and sheltered, had to very, very quickly grow up, be the man of the house, and find a way to provide for us. I couldn’t let my mom, and worse, my 8 year old brother suffer. I would end up working for us for about 3 years, sometimes travelling up and down all over the state. During this entire time I grew even more isolated from girls. Working for my stepfather later, it would be more than 5 years since I had started that I forcefully put that business to a stop. This all made me incredibly lonely. And, I was about 21 or so, when I finally snapped and broke down completely.

The only contact I had had with girls since high school came in the form of one of the few friends I had kept since then. So at that point, I really felt like she was my last and only hope left in the world. But, I was friends with her boyfriend, too, who’s self confidence and emotional issues ran even deeper than mine. He didn’t know at all how to make her happy and they were just torturing each other. That’s when another friend came into the picture, a friend I had met online from half way across the country. His parents were kicking him out of the house and he was about to find himself out on the street. I had my run of our own place at the time, and money. I told him to come down and I’d take care of him. I put a roof over his head and food in his stomach; gave him a new life. They knew each other through a game we played together and I told him well before he met her how I felt about her and to not get involved. He wouldn’t make 3 weeks in Miami before he went behind my back and took her for himself. He even lied to her about my own feelings for her because she refused to get involved with him if it meant hurting me. She already knew, of course. But he convinced her it wasn’t true. By the time she realized what had happened, she swore up and down that him and I had just had a “miscommunication” and did everything in her power to justify him after the deed was done. She pretty much told me I should have had the balls to confess to her first, even though she refused to admit now with her new boyfriend that she would have ever accepted me. I would find out much later through other friends that he had the entire thing planned the whole time. That was the breaking point. I couldn’t take my loneliness and my desperation anymore. I grew to hate myself and my life completely.

I grew to become suicidal, and the only reason I didn’t do it was because I couldn’t bear to put my family, and my good friends through that. But I had no will at all to live. I stopped eating and lost 30 lbs almost overnight. I went for almost 2 months without shaving or even bathing. My loyal friends pretty much kept me on suicide watch daily. My mother tried to force me to medicate, begging me with tears in her eyes. I’d just lie around on the couch for hours on end. Those hours would often turn into days. Even my cat, Houdini, knew something went terribly wrong with me. I thought I was alone; that I was the only man in the world who had it this bad and was going through this. I thought there was no help for me at all out there. I just gave up… completely. I told myself that was it, and that I had to accept that I would never have a woman in my life and I would never find happiness. I told myself that it simply wasn’t meant for me. I withdrew from my life, not externally, but internally, secretly. I would go on to balloon to almost 350 lbs. Life would be a spectator sport for me because I wouldn’t dare allow myself to get hurt again. I would be almost 25 years old before I even had my first kiss.

She was the ex-girlfriend of a friend of mine. She and I actually spent quite a bit of time alone while they were still dating, and during those times, you could cut the sexual tension with a knife. I didn’t know it then, because I didn’t believe in myself even remotely, but a part of me had the slightest inkling that maybe, just maybe, she might be attracted to me. I had no idea. I wasn’t crazy about her at the time, per se, but she is still absolutely the rawest, most sexually powerful girl I have ever met. I’m not the only one who’s made that observation either. There was just something about her. I chalk it up to some kind of hormonal imbalance, or pheromone overdrive, or something. I’m not really sure. While they dated, I didn’t dare to lift a finger against him, and even after they broke up. The break up, though, changed him. He became addicted to online games, and started lashing out at all his friends. Despite my best efforts to help him and be there for him, one day, I just decided I had it and severed ties with him. I then gave myself permission to go and look for her. And it didn’t take long at all before we wound up in bed together one night. She of course did all of the work. I had “gotten lucky” literally and metaphorically. I just managed to not fuck it up long enough for her to aggress. In the middle of it all I made the big mistake of admitting to her that I had never even kissed a girl before that night. That almost sent her running for the hills, but she still went through with it, out of pity I guess. And, seeing as she was the only success I ever had up to that point, I grew to fall for her, in hindsight, mostly out of desperation. She, of course, realizing just how gutless I really was, got back with another of her ex-boyfriends just the next day, insisted it was just sex, and would become just as cruel and heartless as every other girl in my life. But, this time, I was motivated to stop giving up on myself. I had no idea what to do. I didn’t even believe that I actually could change my life. I just felt like I actually had to try again, even if I spent the rest of my life getting rejected, it was better than sitting around doing nothing about it.

Of course, like any good anti-social, nerdy introvert completely lacking in self-confidence I resorted to online dating at first. And it… was… horrible… I did manage to land a few dates, for the first time since high school. But the old “prison sex” metaphor kept coming up. What I was wanting, I wasn’t getting, and what I was getting, I definitely wasn’t wanting. However, I was learning something, very slowly, one interaction at a time. I finally began to realize, as crazy as it sounded, that women didn’t want a nice guy who would do everything they wanted and they could just walk all over. Unfortunately, I still didn’t understand what it was that I needed to do right, just what I was doing wrong.

It was in this time period that I saw the movie Hitch. It didn’t dawn on me at first, but the movie left an impression on me. It left an idea in the back of my mind that I spent a few months chewing on. What if, maybe, I’m not the only one going through this? What if there are other guys out there who know about my problems, and can help me? It was the holiday season of ‘07. And the loneliness, as usual, was hitting me a little harder during that time of year. Thinking back on the movie, though, one night I finally decided to try this absolutely crazy and ridiculous idea. I would try to do a GOOGLE SEARCH! I would try and see if maybe there was a real life Hitch out there who could help me. I put in the words “dating coach” at first and started looking through pages. That was no help. All these guys were on the other side of the country and wanted to charge me thousands and thousands of dollars plus flying them all the way out here from god knows where to teach me how to decorate my house, learn to cook, and dress a little better. So I told myself, “let’s look for something a little more local: Miami dating coach.” I had finally hit the mother lode. I spent days on Dan’s website just looking it over, reading and re-reading, and reading yet again. I knew, this guy was right about everything. I finally knew what my big problem was: attraction. I had no concept or understanding of attraction. I had worked so hard to teach myself to be that great guy who knows how to treat a woman right, but never learned how to get them interested in the first place, and never understood that these were two completely different things. And this problem coupled itself with my deep insecurities. I finally had the idea, albeit it was still very vague at this point, that I had been my own worst enemy my whole life. I absolutely knew he could help me. But, it was a bit pricey on my budget. I had to get my heart thrown in the blender one more time before I would stop making excuses and take the plunge. But I still turned back to his website over and over for the next 8 months.

I worked retail at the time and she had to have been my favorite customer. The most gorgeous blonde hair I’ve ever seen and I don’t even like blondes, killer blue eyes, the body of a goddess, and the personality to boot. She was even more of a dry, sarcastic, smart ass than I was. She threatened to kill me if I didn’t solve her dilemma with my company. And it was love at first threat, or something like that. She would come in on occasion and we would flirt back and forth, but I still didn’t know what I was doing and still had no self confidence at all. Then she invited me to come have a few drinks at the restaurant where she worked. I jumped at the chance. But… again, I still didn’t know what I was doing. Over the next 4 months this girl would just throw herself at me, not aggressing, but subtly, sub-communicating, begging me to be a man and to take her. But I couldn’t. I still couldn’t believe that I deserved this. I couldn’t believe or understand that it was actually possible that this girl, not just any girl but this one out of all of them, could actually be attracted to me. She would choose me over any other guy? It was impossible. I kept telling myself she only thought of me as a friend. I knew I had been a wimp my whole life, but I still didn’t know how to act like a man. So, rather than take what I wanted, I instead punished her, brutally, every time she didn’t give me what I wanted from her. I was very abusive with her. Don’t get me wrong, she was worse than I was, but nobody deserves to hear some of the things I told her. And once again, when she realized I had absolutely no self confidence, everything changed, and I lost any chance I had with her. Eventually between my verbal and emotional abuse, and her own personal demons I decided I couldn’t bear to see her or speak to her anymore. She decided the same thing. And I decided… that she would be the last girl that would ever put me through this again. I called Dan.

I still remember my first conversation with him. I was an utter mess, a complete wreck, or so I thought. I thought I was going to be the biggest challenge of this man’s career. Either that or even he couldn’t help me and I truly was hopeless. As usual, I still had no idea. I had seen a few of these so-called “pick up guru’s” out on the internet. You know the ones; deceptive, manipulative, and shady to the point they make your skin crawl. But, they taught a lot on the subject of attraction, like Dan. So I was expecting something similar out of him. And when I met him, boy was I disappointed. He… was completely… normal. He didn’t dress like he got shot out of a cannon through a carnival supply warehouse. He wasn’t even remotely a scumbag and didn’t advocate it at all either. This guy was a regular human being, not some self-exalted pick-up demigod. I knew instantly he was completely trustworthy and I didn’t hesitate to sign on the dotted line. I was finally going to get the help I so desperately needed.

My boot camp came and went pretty normal, like so many of Dan’s clients I have seen after me. Of course then I was sweating bullets the whole time. I went out, met girls, had some fun, got a phone number or two, even met some girls who really were attracted to me. I had no idea still, though. All of this was great, and scary, but somewhere deep down inside, still a little fun. This wasn’t what changed me, though. This wasn’t what transformed my life and made me do a 180 degree turn. It was what came after the boot camp. It was Dan’s specialty and what sets him apart from every other dating coach out there. It was my Inner Game Consultation with him. And it was, without a doubt, the most important 3 hours of my life.

When I came to Dan, I felt like a freak of nature; a monster. I felt like something was horribly wrong with me. And I knew whatever it was, was primarily in my head. But as usual, I knew what I was doing wrong, but still didn’t know what to do right. In just 3 hours, Dan changed all that for me. Don’t get me wrong, the transformation didn’t happen overnight. When exactly did it happen? I don’t know. Hell, I’m not sure if it’s entirely over. What I know, is that ever since then, I’ve learned to stop doubting myself. I no longer panic and worry myself to sleep at night without hope of ever finding that special someone. I’ve learned that both myself, and every malicious girl who ever told me something about myself, were completely wrong. I knew what to do right. I knew where my life was headed. And I knew I wasn’t going to find just anyone either. I knew I was never going to have to settle. I knew everything was going to be OK. But, more than anything, I knew that I had to pay it forward. I knew I couldn’t just receive this help, this gift of karma, and keep it to myself. I knew there were a lot of other guys out there hurting just as bad as I had been, or worse, and that they had options they weren’t aware of. I knew, then, eventually, I would wind up working for him.

It’s been over three years since I took my boot camp with Dan. Three very long years, long because it takes a bit of work to even go back in my mind to who I used to be before that. It’s been three challenging years, but not hard ones. I realize know that the damage I did to myself then was infinitely harder than what I’ve done to fix it. Most importantly, though. It’s been three fun years. I still haven’t found Miss Right, but that’s perfectly fine. Hell, with my standards being what they are now it could be another three years, or more. But if it is another three years, the next three will be just as fun and wonderful as the last three.

This was very long, I know. But, if you are looking to work with Dan or myself, and you’re still reading this, then I already know something about you before I’ve even met you. You are me. You have been through what I have been. You are where I was over three years ago. My story probably sounds a lot like yours, and it resonated with you. And, just like me, you will learn that you are not hopeless. You will learn that you had no idea.

-Tony Ventura-

Click Here to See How You Can Work With Tony

Dream Team’s Top Miami and Phoenix Dating Coaches join forces to bring you an intense dating program designed to kick start your dating life into maximum gear.

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Place a picture of each of us here and images of all the places we’ve been interviewed on.

From: Dan Silverman, The Miami Dating Coach

Dear Friends and Clients,

Last year, Joann and I thought of the idea to have me come to Phoenix and help some of her male clients out by teaching them how to meet women, literally by taking them out to clubs and coaching them in front of women. It was such a huge success, that we still have clients requesting us to host this program again! Listen to our testimonial from one of our clients that attended last year’s program:

We can include an audio clip of Chris’ testimonial here. This can be done through skype and uploaded here.

Our program was even written about in Arizona newspapers! Unfortunately, there was such limited space for people to sign up for the program because I was only in town for a weekend.

GREAT NEWS: One year later, we finally decided to have the program again and that program is happening NOW! So let me ask you an important question:

Do Any of These Common Dating Problems Happen to You?

• Do you not talk to women you are interested because you feel an intense fear of rejection?

•Does your mind go blank when you want to talk to a pretty woman?

•Do you have no idea how to get a woman’s number and set up a date?

•Do you have no idea how to make a woman feel attraction for you?

•Do you feel like you don’t have enough dates or even female friends in your life?

•Think you’re not tall, wealthy, or handsome enough to meet the women you want to meet?

•Do you think that being good with women is just something you’re born with?

•Do you get stuck in the friend zone all the time?

Sign Up for Our

How to Meet Women Boot Camp

This dating program is designed to teach you how to successfully approach, attract, and get women’s numbers. After taking our intensive program, you will:

•Understand what makes women attracted to men and how to make yourself more attractive.

•Discover what women really mean when they say speak indirectly to you, and also how to speak indirectly back.

•Be able to use your body language to make women feel attraction and comfort with you faster than most men they meet. 

•Learn how to properly use your voice in a masculine, confident way.

•Be able to approach women and know what to say to get the best possible results.

•Handle rejection and not let it affect your ego. 

•Be able to have a fun conversation with complete strangers, even though you know nothing about them and have nothing planned to say.

•Be able to tell if she’s interested and how to capitalize on it.

•Know how to ask for her number and set up a date.

So how do we know what we are talking about? We are nationally recognized dating coaches in our field, but I realize that showing you is better than writting about ourselves. Check out these videos of Joann and I:

Put video of my MTV MADE thing http://www.youtube.com/user/Dankauf#p/a/u/1/RMwG2D_x3i4, your 500lb virgin clip or whatever clips you’d like to put of yourself, and also the video testimonial of my older client found here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Mb0UOygCwk

The outline of the program is as follows:

Approach like a Man Mastermind Seminar:

Friday May 13th from 6:00PM to 10PM or

Saturday May 14th from 12PM to 4PM.

In the Mastermind Seminar you will:

•Learn the fundamentals of approaching women

•Learn how attraction works.

•Learn indirect communication.

•Practice body language.

•Practice voice tone.

•Role play styles of openers.

•Practice building attraction.

•Practice making fun conversation.

•Learn how to get a woman’s number and set up a date.

•Receive personalized coaching in Joann Cohen’s Seminar Room with up to 7 other students.

•Work with other students role playing and perfecting your approaches.

•Work personally with both Dan Silverman and Joann Cohen improving and critiquing your approaches.

•Receive a free copy of Dan Silverman’s book The Seven Steps to Inner Game Power full of exercises in improving your confidence with women and overcoming your anxiety to approach women.

•Meet other men who you can wing with and improve your skills after the program is over.

The mastermind program is 4 hours of intensive personalized training and limited to only 8 participants to ensure you get the personalized attention and coaching to start meeting and dating pretty women.

Approaching Women Night In Field Training:

Saturday May 14th from 8:30PM to 12:30PM

The in field training is the most intense portion of the program and also the most fun! You’ll take everything you’ve learned in the mastermind seminar and take it to the real world with your two coaches, Joann and Dan. At a nightclub you’ll approach real women while being coached to help you be successful or learn from your mistakes in every encounter. And Joann and Dan will act as your personal wingwoman and wingman to help guide you– even if she’s in a crowd of friends. You will:

•Overcome your fears of meeting women.

•Meet and approach more women than you have in any night of your life.

•Have fun meeting strangers and making friends.

•Practice everything you learned on hot women.

•Go home with a new understanding of social interaction that you can use for the rest of your life.

The Night Time In Field Portion is limited to 3 people to make sure each student receives personal attention to master the game of meeting women.

Approaching Women Day In Field Training:

Sunday May 15th from 3:00PM to 7:00PM

This is the exact same same program as the night portion, but during the day time.

The in field training is the most intense portion of the program and also the most fun! You’ll take everything you’ve learned in the mastermind seminar and take it to the real world with your two coaches, Joann and Dan. At the mall you’ll approach real women while being coached to help you be successful or learn from your mistakes in every encounter. And Joann and Dan will act as your personal wingwoman and wingman to help guide you– even if she’s in a crowd of friends. You will:

•Overcome your fears of meeting women.

•Meet and approach women while they have their guards down.

•Have fun meeting strangers and making friends.

•Practice everything you learned on hot women.

•Go home with a new understanding of social interaction that you can use for the rest of your life.

The Day Time In Field Portion is limited to 2 people to make sure both students receives personal attention to master the game of meeting women.

Private In Field Dating Coaching:

Monday May 16th through Wednesday May 18th. Time varies depending on availability.

If you are looking to be trained privately by Dan and Joann, sign up for private coaching. You will:

•Two dating coaches guiding you personally without being interupted by other students.

•Hand holding through any area of difficulty.

•Intense approach coaching in field meeting women at the malls.

•Critique and polishing of your approaches as well as extra coaching in advanced topics.

So now that you know what we are offering, let me give you some options on how you can sign up, but hurry soon because space is extremely limited since I am only in town for a week working with Joann. This program will not be available again at least until next year! 

Platinum Package

This package includes:

•Approach Like a Man Mastermind Seminar. (choice of either day)

•Approaching Women In Field Training. (choice of night or day depending on availability)

•Six hours of Private In Field Coaching.

All this for

$2100

Gold Package

This package includes:

•Approach Like a Man Mastermind Seminar (choice of either day)

•Approaching Women In Field Training (choice of night or day depending on availability)

•Three hours of Private In Field Coaching.

All this for

$1600

Silver Package

This package includes:

•Approach Like a Man Mastermind Seminar (choice of either day)

•Approaching Women In Field Training (choice of night or day depending on availability)

All this for

$1000

Seminar Only

This package only includes the Approach Like a Man Mastermind Seminar

$300

6 Hours of Private Coaching

 $1497

3 Hours of Private Coaching

 $900

As always, our programs are guaranteed to provide you with quality dating coaching. If for any reason you are not satisfied with your dating coaching, let us know before the end of the first day and we will give you a full refund. Joann and I are very excited to see you in May. Don’t hesistate to call Joann at 480-620-1463 or me (Dan) at 305-742-5334 to inquire us about our program.

Cancellation Policy: If you need to cancel the program, give at least one full week’s notice, and you’ll get a full refund back. Unfortunately due to limited availability, no refunds are available for less than a week’s notice. However we will let you use 50% credit for Joann’s or Dan’s services.

See You Soon,

Dan Silverman, The Miami Dating Coach

In November, I went through a hard breakup with my former girlfriend that totally changed my life. After two and a half years of living with each other and always being together, I was single again. It was a tough transition and I know many of you have come to me because you just got out of a bad breakup or divorce. That is why this article is dedicated to getting over a broken heart and how to get your life back together following a break up. Follow these simple steps to getting over a broken heart and your transition into singlehood will be a bit less intense.

Getting Over a Broken Heart Step 1: Reconnect with friends and family – Friends are great in times of heartbreak.  They are our support system that keeps us afloat in rough waters. The day of the breakup and the weeks following, you should spend time with close friends and family. Though breakups suck, they do a great job in building stronger bonds between your family and friends. They will help you feel better when you are down.

Getting Over a Broken Heart Step 2: Go out – Spending the weekend alone in your room will make you miserable. Now that you’re single, go out! You’re going to be doing this a lot more often now that you’re single so let’s get the party started!  You do not need to rebound right away if you aren’t ready for it, but get accustomed to partying and meeting new people. You are building a new life as a single person.  You will make new friends and build your social circle. This is especially important if most of your friends were your ex’s friends or you lost most of your friends because you spent all of your time with your ex.

Getting Over a Broken Heart Step 3: Focus on yourself – You have to stop thinking about your relationship and start thinking about yourself. Set some goals you would like to accomplish. Take up hobbies you used to do as a single person. Start exercising, get a make-over, redecorate your home, or even begin a new career.

Getting Over a Broken Heart Step 4: Stay busy – Though depression and sadness is inevitable, the more you stay busy, the less you will obsess over the breakup. It’s healthy to release your sadness and grieve, but when you lock yourself in a closet and eat ice cream, stare at anniversary pictures, and recite letters from your ex, you’re making yourself suffer. However, don’t stay so busy that you don’t allow yourself to grieve and reflect on what you’ve learned from the relationship because you will prolong the grieving process.

Getting Over a Broken Heart Step 5: Let bygones be bygones – The most important thing to do is to accept what happened and move on. Do not regret what happened because you can’t change the past. Learn from your mistakes and mature. Hating your ex can be an easy way to get over the person, but if you have any intentions on staying friends, it will not work if you harbor resentment. Remember, forgiveness benefits you, not the transgressor. Forgiveness and acceptance is the last and final step that must take place before you can fully recover from a breakup. You don’t want to get into your next relationship with emotional baggage. It’s not fair to the other person and it’s bad for you psychologically.

If you’re still communicating with your ex and want him or her back, or perhaps you need help getting over a broken heart, consider taking phone consultations with me to coach you through these tough times.

Your Dating Coach,

Dan Silverman

I just wanted to thank you for all the advices received. They are really workin!!!!

I got myself a beautiful girlfriend and let me tell you she’s a 10. I’ll send you a couple of pictures!

Johnny G.

Having recently entered a relationship with a quality woman, I desperately needed solid advice on dealing with several particulars of my situation and decided I simply could not proceed on the principles I had previously learned.

I cannot overemphasize how refreshing it was to receive practical (actionable and not merely theoretical), individualized and non-b.s. advice from a true expert on dating and relationships. Dan helped me weed out unnecessary games and tactics which were both stressful and counterproductive to my goals. And while other experts I’ve studied claim that their philosophy can be incorporated into your own personality style, Dan’s approach was the first and only one which actually allowed for this. He is easy to speak with and a true professional. My expectations were vastly exceeded and this testimonial is the least I could do to express my gratitude.

-Mike-