Kino Escalation

Kino Escalation

Kino escalation happens when you make a move, when you hold a girl’s hand, touch her face, or kiss her.

The first thing I need to clarify is to not apply kino escalation like you are trying to get to sex as quickly as possible. This comes off creepy, needy, and unnatural. Relax guys. This telegraphs way too much interest.

Kino escalation is a delicate balance of pulling a woman towards you and lightly pushing her off. With each step forward, always have some kind of push. For example, if you are applying kino escalation and you want to kiss her for the first time, go in for the kiss. Just before you feel she’s about to push you off, pull back and say, “you’re so bad for me, we have to stop.” This kind of teasing drives women crazy and makes them want more of your physical touch. If you are always pulling her in but never pushing her away, she will become accustomed to resisting your kino escalation advances and expect them to come. thereby making you chase her and making yourself predictable. 

Here is an example of kino escalation:

Guy: Are you a good kisser?

Girl: Of course!

Guy: If you were in a kissing class, what grade would the teacher give you?

Girl: A+!

Guy: No way, you probably have no idea how to kiss.

Girl: Yeah I do!

Guy: Show me then.  (They start making out, then the guy pushes her off.)  I guess you’re okay.  (Guy gives a playful smile. Girl probably smiles and hits his arm.)

To properly execute kino escalation, you must first establish some kind of touch. Maybe touch her shoulder or hand. Something small at first. Work your way to more intense kino escalation such as hand holding, cuddling, and sitting in your lap. Don’t do wimpy moves that make you look uncomfortable touching her. This will creep her out. Take the initiative and do it with complete authority like it’s the most normal thing in the world to you.

You shouldn’t attempt kino escalation in an unnatural way. After the kino escalation, reward her with praise. Always try to end the kino escalation before she does. You always should be the one to start and stop kino escalation. If you feel she is tensing up when you attempt kino escalation, throw her hand away and tease her. This will all come with experience. One way to get experience is to go out there and go through trial and error, but that could take many months. If you want to get good at kino escalation fast, you should sign up for in field dating coaching.

Your Dating Coach,

Dan Silverman