Approaching Women Tips 1

Approaching Women Tips 1

In today’s article, Approaching Women Tips, I answer another reader email.

READER EMAIL

Hey Dan! What’s up man? I’ve been following your newsletters closely and I can really say that its really helped my game. You are the jedi master of all the jedi’s that call themselves jedi in the jedi universe!! hahahaha ok.. so here is my question… What can I do if I’ve opened a girl up in the street..and I start with a conversation, and she just cuts me in the middle of me talking and tells me that “I’m sorry I have to go I’m running late and I have to be somewhere”?? Can you give me some really cool approaching women tips like a ass kick ass line to reverse her “running late” mindset and have her eating out of my palms???

K. from Miami, FL

MY REPLY

LOL! My friend, I’ll be happy to give you some approaching women tips. The way to solve this problem is to avoid it in the first place. Your opener is weak and that’s why she is blowing you out. Yes, it is possible that she really is late, has to leave, and is still attracted, but the way you know this is if she says she’s late but lingers there hoping that you’ll stop her and ask for her number. Did she do that? Probably not since she left immediately after telling you she’s late.

Here’s some more approaching women tips. Don’t open seeking rapport. Meaning, don’t start asking her questions about herself. She’s not going to want to tell a stranger about her life unless she’s attracted to him. You will look just like the other 15 guys who approached her that week.

More important approaching women tips: You must use an opener that’s interesting enough to buy you a minute or two. Asking her how she’s doing or where she’s going won’t cut it unless you’re very physically attractive. Calibrate how in a rush she looks. You don’t need to run a thirty minute approach on a woman you met on the street. Sometimes just your body language, vocal tonality, and confidence will display enough value to get the girl interested before you even open your mouth.

Even more approaching women tips: Remember to smile on the approach and have a carefree warm vibe. Don’t look like a predator on the hunt. It really doesn’t matter so much what you say, it’s how you say it. If you focus on your inner state, you will be able to naturally think of a line that is congruent to your personality. Hell, you can even make “Hi, I know it might seem weird for me to just come and approach you like this, but I think that you are absolutely beautiful and I wanted to find out what you are like, but unfortunately I’m in a hurry, do you have Facebook?” As long as you deliver this line slowly, confidently, warmly, and with no awkwardness or fidgeting, you will get that email and possibly the number if you ask. Make sure to run more comfort building by talking to her through a messenger service and/or phone before you invite the woman out because she still doesn’t know you and will likely flake. Now go get her! Thanks for the email.

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Your Dating Coach,

Dan Silverman