Kingpin and I were walking towards the club to meet up with fearless. Not 5 minutes into our walk KP says to me, "We're going to open those two over there". He told me the opener he was going to use and as we crossed the street to two girls in the parking lot of a small apartment building I already knew it wasn't going to work.

KP walks up and say's "Hey girls. My friend here is meeting a girl here tonight for a date. Do you have any advice for him to make the date go well"?

They looked at each other and looked at each other. The one on the left said, "I don't know"

I was preparing my condolence speech for KP with the reasons the sarge didn't work when a split second later my frame got flipped on it's head. The girl to our right said, "Let her talk about herself". I said
let her talk?(Her) "Yeah girls like to talk about themselves. Don't be talking about yourself all night". The girl who at first "didn't know", pipes in, "Be a gentleman". All the sudden the both of us were in a
conversation with two cute girls I had been ready to pack it up and call it an A for effort throw away approach.

We bid them a good night and were on our way.

When we got close to an outdoor bar a 4 set was walking by. KP said "Hey girls" and they kept walking by. He turned around and said, "My friend here is going on a date and he needs a females opinion on how
to make things go well. The last girl that passed suddenly turns around and walks back towards KP to listen to what he had to say.The other three girls stop stand in place and look at the girl who was talking to KP over their shoulders like (Come on let's go) She told them to wait a minute and explained the situation. I totally thought those girls were all going to walk right passed without saying a word but KP was commented to seeing the sarge through and his (I need advice for my friend reality was stronger than their we are going to just be on our way reality.

Within a minute they were peppering me with questions."Were did you meet"? "You just want to fuck her don't you Ha Ha Ha...They were swarming around each other and would hardly let me get a word in edge wise as the espoused their ideas and joked around at
the same time. One of the girls was saying to the others , Let him explain". Now all the sudden I realized why they call this stuff chick crack. I was a little upset we had used the date was tonight lie and
said tomorrow instead I have little doubt they would have come with us to hang out.They were having so much fun.

After we left the 4 set we went into the club and looked for Fearless. On the way through KP tried opening a 2 set and they were unresponsive/rude. I was thinking, "Her we go club girls with attitude.
We found and talked to fearless who was with his girlfriend. Within half a minute of leaving were fearless was KP had opened a 6 set (4 girls 2 guys). He was having animated conversation with 2 of the girls. I thought ,"Wow same guy same approach gets shot down by a couple of bitches and has cuter ones laughing within the same 5 minutes. This taught me not to judge my sets until I have approached them. Sounds like common sense but something I had to unlearn.

I hadn't opened any sets. I was uncomfortable with the crowded place and told KP I wasn't feeling it. He said to me, "Go approach that girl over there on the wall. She's standing by herself".I hesitated. He said,
"Do you want me to do it". I said, "No. I'll do it. As I walked up to her I had no idea what I was going to say."Hey! You look like your bored. Aren't you having fun"? She explained herself and was fairly open. I
strongly feel I could have pulled a number close on her if I knew some routines. As it was I ran out of material and had to abandon the sarge wishing her a good night.

I went up to a 3 set after that and said to the girl leaning on the wall. "You look bored"<-(By the way I know that's a shitty opener).She said, "That's because I am bored". Then she looked away like. This
conversation is over. Two minutes later I see her boyfriend come up and make out with her.

KP and I went into the Salsa room and he said, "Go up to that girl over there.She was dancing with herself. O wait never mind it's too late a guy is approaching her." The guy leaned in and she dismissed him on the spot. He said, "Now's your chance. Go ask her to dance". I looked over at her with her arms crossed. I said to KP. "She has closed body language and she just shot that guy down without giving him a chance.(KP) " So what. Don't worry about it. Go get rejected.

I decided KP was right. I was caring too much about the outcome. I walked across the floor came up to her and said ,"Would you like to dance"? (She still had her arms crossed).Now this is an interesting freeze point because this is the first time I've had a phase shift. I had this expectancy. I gave her this authoritative look and put out my hands, and low and behold she took them and the salsa dancing was on. She had this dead look on her face the entire time.I could have busted on her for it but I was concentrating too hard trying to think of the next salsa turn I would use. After the dance I said, "thanks". She turned and left without saying a word.

A short while later I was up against the wall observing as KP went up to a HB by a table. I saw her become animated and his sarge was obviously going well as it lasted at least 15 minutes.

KP waved me over and introduced me to his new "friend" Barbara. I said my hello.Little small talk, and then KP number closed her. She commented to him that most men are morons but that he had game. That reinforced my frame that most guys shoot themselves in
the foot from the word go by using no conversational foreplay.

KP's next approach was a girls sitting at a bar stool facing out towards her friends on the dance floor.They were all bonified 9's. KP was encouraging me to go talk to them. I replied to him, "They just want
attention". Negative frame I know but I've got some attitude problems towards girls I need to work out. KP left the set with his signature high five.

The next set I tried to use a little MM. The 2 set consisted of a girl that looked like a hot stripper the other was a girl that needed to put away the life time supply of Oreo's. I went up to the obstacle and
said, "You two look like your having more fun than anyone else in here"! She gave me a short, get lost reply. I went to find KP to joke how I had gotten shot down by the fugliest girl in the whole club.

1) It's good to go out with other wings because they

motivate you at times you don't feel motivated

yourself.


2) Never pre-suppose because a girl has turned down

every other guy in the club, that your results will be

the same. Pulling a girl who shot down everyone else is

a nitrous boost to confidence.

3) When you go up into a set EXPECT them to be

responsive. This will help your non-verbal aura to be

congruent with confidence.

4) Get in a few approaches when you first enter a

venue. I notice approach 4 is usually were I start

feeling comfortable, and start going into sets without

second guessing myself.

-Stripper-

END OF FIELD REPORT

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