Before reading this, understand that most of my statements are generalizations and do not apply to all women. I hope this doesn’t anger the hundreds of women reading this, but someone’s got to talk about it.
As I write this, I am listening to Chris Rock’s HBO special. He said, “You cannot beat a woman in an argument. It’s impossible. You will not win! Because men, we are handicapped when it comes to arguing because we have a need to make sense. Women ain’t gonna let a little thing like sense fuck up their argument. Cause she’s not in it for sense. She’s in it for distance and irritation.”
Women are very emotional beings. A woman thinks with her heart. Most of a woman’s decisions and actions are decided under the current emotional state she is in.
This is why a woman may even love you the night you meet her, but never calls you again. She felt very attracted to you that night, but the next day when she woke up she was no longer in that emotional state and felt very uncomfortable calling you because she doesn’t feel like she knows you.
This is also why one day she may treat you like you’re the king of the world and the next day she may totally ignore you. She needs you to make her feel better. If you are trying to get a woman to agree with you or to comply with you, never try to logically convince her. Don’t change her mind, change her mood. When you are trying to figure out why a woman does something, always look to her emotions first.
Here is a useful tip for you men who are in a relationship.
When your woman is pissed off at you for no logical reason, 95% of the time it’s because she doesn’t feel loved.
Don’t ask her why she is upset when she doesn’t know or can’t explain it. Assume she needs love and shower her with it. She’ll change her mood eventually if you stay strong, and she will appreciate that you were man enough to remain emotionally strong. Don’t shower her with love, however, if she is doing it just to get attention. If you do this you will be reinforcing the wrong kind of behavior.
Another large factor in a woman’s logic is her social conditioning. Social status is one of the most important determining factors in her logical decisions. Nine times out of ten, the opinion of a woman’s peer group is more important than her own opinion. This is why it is so important to have social influence and win over a woman’s friends. This is also why women find rich and famous men so irresistible. They have high social status. If they align with these men, it will raise their own social status. This is why popular guys and social guys are universally more attractive than introverted guys. This is also why it is so important to always appear cooler than the woman or at least as cool. She needs to feel like she’s dating a desirable man. A woman will never hook up with a guy that she perceives as lower than herself.