There she is, a breath-taking beautiful woman. You’re already attracted to her before you can even think about what to say. You can smell her perfume already and it’s only been a few seconds.
How Do You Approach and What Do You Say?
Anything you want really. However, some things are better than others. It’s not so much what you say though, but how you say it. I’ve seen guys successfully open with, “Hey mami, hey girl! Open your window! Lemme get your number!” This is an opener that I would never recommend and has very little chance of working. Here are some of the rules of how to say it, and then we’ll go over what to say.
1. Approach at an angle: If you walk up directly to a girl, you’ll freak her out. If you approach from behind, you’ll freak her out. Think of women as cats when it comes to approaching. Imagine living in a world where over half of the population is bigger than you.
2. Smile: Smiling instantly puts people at ease. If you are so nervous that you aren’t smiling, you’ll look like a serial killer.
3. High energy: This doesn’t mean you have to be a dancing monkey, but make sure you come in at an equal to higher energy level than the set that you are approaching. You don’t want to be the party-pooper. You are the party.
4. Speak loudly and clearly: You don’t need to scream unless you’re in a club. Speak from your diaphragm. Generally, the quiet guy is scarier than the loud guy.
5. Use the suspicious look: Look suspicious as you say your line. This is KILLER. We teach this technique in depth in our comprehensive boot camp because it is so important. You really won’t understand this concept until you see it performed.
Now the what part.
A good opener is one that will engage her emotions. If you come in with, “Oye mami, (kiss) (kiss)” how do you think that’s going to make her feel? I don’t need to answer that. If I do, you really need to take our boot camp.
You can open directly or indirectly. Direct is when you express your interest in the opener. An indirect approach is when you talk to her without hitting on her while building her interest in you first.
Regardless, powerful openers engage a woman’s emotions. “Who lies more, men or women?” is a classic example. “My friend is going on a date this Sunday, what do you think he should do, and where should he take her?”
Women love topics that are in soap operas, women’s magazines, and celebrity talk shows. Incorporate these topics and build your own openers.
“I’m sure that every drunk guy in this club and all his loser friends have been hitting on you all night, but I think that you are absolutely stunning, and I wanted to find out if there’s more to you than meets the eye.” This is a pretty smooth direct opener. It makes her laugh, which can destroy her shield, and the compliment wasn’t trashy.
It’s not hard to compete with all these guys out there in the field. Most men say the same lame crap to women. Just ask some female friends about this. Don’t be bothered if you get snubbed by a woman when you approach her. They are so used to men hitting on them that of course they are going to expect you are just another loser. Show them there are still good men out there.
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